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Welcome to our Home page. As A D/s Web Center marks it's 9th year online. From the early days as "The Whipping Post" on AOL, the main purpose has been to provide information for safe exploration in this rapidly growing subculture. We are known internationally, and have many awards. but the real value of this site is to the readers who learn and explore and develop a new sense of themselves, their skills and their relationships. Domination and submission is not just about swinging toys, nor is it solely total power exchange. Not everything available here will suit all readers. But all material is presented in the spirit and desire of providing quality information at all levels of alternative lifestyle involvement.

This site would not continue without the support of several people dedicated to giving back to the community, online world-wide and in their own communities. We are most grateful for our benefactors and those who make donations or shop our store and affiliates.

Take time to explore all we offer here. Main categories lead down smaller corridors and you will discover far more than 31 flavors. If you are new or having troubles in Life style.. please stop by the Basics pages. Learning from the wisdom of those who came before you is invaluable. Send us your favorite links. Contribute to the creative writing pages or just find inspiration or perspiration there. Discover more about something you might be too afraid to ask about in public. Shop at selected vendors and support our marketing and donation links too. Want to get lost deep? Just go to Links of Links.

The navigation menu is atop most every page...serving as your breadcrumbs back out of the forest. The Main Category you are under will always be " lit " in red. My comments atop many subject pages likewise will always be in the red text and panel. Enjoy your journey share it with your friends.

-Daddy J

	Valuable advice from those who learned the hard way. Definitions • Safe meets • Safer kinky sex • Negotiation • Safe Sane and Consensual • drugs, medications and alcohol use • Contracts • Collaring • sub-space • 10 rules for Dominants • 10 rules for submissives • Lord Stephans philosophy • An initial agreement
	D/s Dynamics come alive. Articles about the nature of D/s. News • The Pleasure of Pain • Endorphins • Sex & Pain • Old Guard • Reality Pool • Petition • Checklists •Reviews of Events
	Dominants speak about their experiences, theories, concerns and views.
	submissives share experiences, feelings, words of support.
	The Vanilla-Not Logo Shop \| Eros Boutique Toy & Fetish Shopping \| Support V-Not.com \| Amazon.com \| The D/s Shopping Directory Pages.
	Bios and personal pages of people who contribute or support this project. Links to Community Leaders and other kinky folks. IRC Chat Help & Channel Links.
	The Calendar of D/s, Latex Leather, Poly and BDSM events. Links to other calendars as well.
	Find groups near you. Geographic listings of organizations and resources. Texas and Houston Links
	The library. A compendium of books magazines and other reading materials related to sub-culture.
	Spanking • Bondage • Body Modification • Fire Play • Pony's • Mummification • Gorean • Wax • Breath • Electricity • Chastity • Fetishwear •Poly Relationships • you name it.
	A new visual art links page along with our traditional original creative writings. All things that may inspire you or perspire you.
	Organizations • Links of Links • Cool Web sites
	Reader comments, testimonials, reactions, support and critique