Vanilla sex at large would only be improved if its practitioners were to discuss things in as much detail as practitioners of BDSM do.

This negotiation and discussion process is considered absolutely essential in BDSM sex. Because practitioners recognize that they are doing important things that will matter a great deal to people, psychologically speaking, they recognize how important it is to lay all cards out on the table.
- Janis Cortese



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